If you are too afraid to do soвdo it anyway. With the help of medication, psychotherapy and your own courage, you gay dating site mexico overcome these problems. At the moment I would guess that your depression results from your social anxiety and once you get that resolved you may not need medication. I can totally empathize with the young lady. I, too am a 20 year old female who feels that it is difficult to make friends.
If you ever see this comment, girl, email me tripp yahoo. I would LOVE to talk to you. I really feel for this girl. I had the same problems with both depression and socializing in college, made most of the wrong friends and would cut them out of my life usually out of an irrational fear that they would take advantage of me.
Now two years out of college I find its even harder to meet new people and make new friends in the corporate setting.
If they are trust-worthy to others than what makes you think they are not going to be trust-worthy with you. This creates a bond that diminishes the idea of having to check on their every move.
Sometimes doing so especially before you have even commited to each other realistically causes unecessary issues and anxiety. You are now harboring assumptions without validation. Yes you may have been pyscho and ran their credit and background as a pre-requisite BUT you may have it gay dating site mexico off!. As much as you want to believe otherwise and others want to feed into you it is just way off. So now you are just stressing yourself while your SO sits in astonishment and amusement. You have these feelings without ever being able to express them and get a detailed and honest story behind it because you snooped.
It may be a matter of location. I live in South Florida. I may be wrong. Cultural expectations and attitudes were too much for me to deal with.
Never been there, but it is now on my list of places to visit: I have made up my mind to only date Westerners. Where are you exactly in S.